If you’re new to dating, it’s worth getting your “own house in order” before you embark on the journey to meet others. You need to know what you are looking for, what you will and will not compromise on, what you’ll tolerate in the way others treat you – and what you won’t tolerate etc.

Be clear about your intentions: Before you start dating, it’s important to be clear about your intentions. Are you looking for a serious relationship or something more casual? This will help you to focus your search and find partners who are looking for the same things as you.

Get to know yourself: Understanding yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner is key to successful dating. Take time to reflect on your values, interests, and goals, and think about how they might align with potential partners.

Be open-minded: When you’re new to dating, it’s important to keep an open mind and be willing to explore different types of people and relationships. Don’t be too quick to dismiss someone just because they don’t fit your ideal image of a partner.

Practice good communication: Good communication is essential in any relationship. Make sure you’re clear and direct in your communication with potential partners, and be a good listener as well.

Focus on building a connection: Rather than focusing solely on physical attraction or shared interests, focus on building a deeper connection with potential partners. Look for common values and goals, and explore what makes each other unique.

Be patient: Finding the right partner takes time and patience. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t find someone right away, and remember that it’s better to wait for the right person than to settle for someone who isn’t a good fit.

Get out of your comfort zone: Dating can be a great opportunity to try new things and get out of your comfort zone. Consider exploring new hobbies, activities, and social circles to meet potential partners.

Stay safe: When you’re dating, it’s important to stay safe and protect yourself. Be cautious about sharing personal information or meeting up with someone you don’t know well, and trust your instincts if something doesn’t feel right.

Be respectful: Respect is key to any successful relationship. Treat potential partners with kindness and respect, even if you don’t see a future together.

Have fun: Most importantly, remember that dating should be fun and enjoyable! Don’t take it too seriously, and try to approach it with a sense of curiosity and adventure. Enjoy the journey and have fun meeting new people!

Dating Dave wishes you well on your dating journey, and I’m always here to help you if needed!