I’m interested in all matters of love and sexuality, as both are essential components of any successful relationship between consenting male and female partners. Whilst it’s sometimes a bit raw or embarrassing to talk about some topic areas (and some people might even consider them “taboo”) I’ve always believed that no related discussion topic should be off limits for this blog. Every reader has the right to read or not read what I write, to comment on what I write, and to make their own choices.

With all of that in mind, this blog post is about the various ways in which guys and girls enhance the appearance of their respective genital regions. It’s not something I’ve done myself (but I might be open to offers – try me), but it is something I’m interested in from an aesthetic basis. It’s not that common I guess, but I see this kind of enhancement like any other kind of body modification or dressing: part of an individual’s personality and style.

So, let’s start with females improving the appearance of their vaginas. I think vaginas are naturally beautiful things, but some women believe they can improve their appearance further. Frankly, if a girl wants to upgrade their vagina, pussy, vajayjay, snatch, coochie, or muff, I’m not going to judge them. Adornment of the female genitalia, also known by some as “vajazzling,” can take various forms, such as temporary glitter tattoos, crystal or bead decorations, or jewelry.

These types of adornments may look pretty but they can also pose health risks, such as infection, irritation, or other complications. Adornments of this kind may also be culturally insensitive for some people, so be careful who you show your adorned genitals to!

Guys also adorn their penises – and I assume this is for similar reasons. These adornments likewise include piercings, jewelry, or tattoos. As with any body modification, it’s up to each individual to decide what they feel comfortable with and what they consider to be appropriate or inoffensive. If you’re lucky enough in this world to have a penis, dick, cock, schlong, wang or a John Thomas, then you can make your own call. Be aware of any potential health risks, such as infection, irritation, or other complications.

Each vagina and penis is a private area, and decorating it for the purpose of sexual attraction or to meet societal expectations can contribute to harmful and disrespectful attitudes towards women and/or men and their bodies. I’m not personally sure whether there is a higher proportion of adornments in straight or gay or bi males or females – and I guess it doesn’t really matter. It’s your body and your choice.