We’re about to have a storm here in Auckland, New Zealand. Technically it’s a cyclone called “Cyclone Gabrielle”, and it’s really expected to shake things up with high winds and high rainfall. Planning for storms and dealing with them reminds me of life and love – where storms can come at any moment. It doesn’t matter how well you plan, sometimes life throws curveballs and you just have to adapt to them.

Storms, both metaphorical and literal, can put a strain on any relationship and make it seem like love is slipping away. However, with a little effort, it is possible to keep the flame of love alive even when the skies are dark and the winds are howling.

Communication is key: When the going gets tough, it’s easy to shut down and withdraw from each other. However, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open and be honest with your partner about how you’re feeling. Listen to each other’s concerns, and work together to find solutions.

Show affection: Simple gestures like hugs, holding hands, and kissing can help to strengthen the bond between you and your partner. Make sure to take the time to connect with each other physically, even if it’s just for a few moments each day.

Prioritize time together: When life gets hectic, it can be easy to forget to make time for each other. Make an effort to schedule regular date nights, or simply spend time together doing something you both enjoy.

Remember why you fell in love: Take the time to reflect on the reasons why you fell in love with your partner. Remind yourself of the things you love about them and what makes your relationship special.

Practice forgiveness: No relationship is perfect, and even the strongest relationships will have their ups and downs. It’s important to be able to forgive and move on from any conflicts that may arise. Holding onto grudges and resentment will only serve to further damage your relationship.

Seek outside help: If your relationship is struggling, don’t be afraid to seek outside help. Couples counseling can be a great way to work through any challenges and find a path forward.

When storms are brewing across the city, as they are in Auckland New Zealand right now, it can be difficult to keep the love alive in your relationship. By following the tips given and making a conscious effort to connect with your partner, it’s possible to weather the storm and emerge stronger than ever before. Remember that love is a powerful thing, and with a little care and attention, it can overcome even the toughest of challenges. And I’m living proof of that. I love life, and I’m in love with love itself.