There is a present trend of more seasoned ladies dating more youthful men in society. The in-vogue term for such ladies is “cougars.” Celebrity ladies who have arrived at a specific age are finding satisfaction with more youthful fellows. Demi Moore is a good recent example – she wedded Ashton Kutcher who was 15 years younger than her. Madonna was wedded to Guy Richie (10 years more youthful) and when she parted from him, she met up with Alex Rodriguez (15 years more youthful). Celebrity cougars are interesting to read about, but you might even have friends that meet this same criteria!

Older ladies find more youthful men engaging for several reasons. Cougars have a tendency to be high performing professional ladies in their jobs. They often have high-level official positions in major firms, or are managing their own businesses. Numerous men their own particular age get scared off by the talents of these ladies. More youthful men, who were brought up in a more populist time, are more likely to be tolerant of a successful business woman. These days, success is a good thing!

More senior ladies dating more youthful men often additionally like their cub’s (young man) energetic outlook on life. Young guys just aren’t tainted about some topics like older men can be. Sex is one of those topics. I know first hand that ladies have a sexual peak in their late 30s and into their 40s while men achieve their most amazing sexual performances around 19, then gradually decay. Numerous ladies believe they missed out on something good when they were younger and less sexually experienced. So a 20 year old man with awesome potential for sex is an attractive quality to many ladies in their 30s and 40s. This works both ways. Lots of young men find the thought of dating an older woman to be very sexually rewarding. An older lady knows her body. She knows what satisfies her and she’s not hesitant to take the sexual lead in bed. Some guys find this approach truly refreshing.

Young guys dating financially secure women (which most of these cougars are) enjoy the fact that they no longer have to stress too much about making money. Sometimes these women can find or create jobs for their men. In any case, there’s less need for men to make money when their lady can foot a percentage of the bills. Numerous men dating cougars have discovered that they can go back to part time study or even start a business due to this financial assistance. These things would not have been conceivable for many if the young man was dating girls his own age.

Older ladies are more secure generally than younger girls. If for example there’s an argument, a young girl might cry, throw things, and be miserable and insecure for days. An older lady may just call her sister or close companion to talk reasonably about things – and then take her man to bed. Things get dealt with, there and then, at the time.

Are there any things to worry about with Cougar / Cub relationships? Sure. Often older ladies don’t have kids already, or don’t want them. Sometimes these relationships break apart because the man decides he wants to be a biological father. But outside of this issue, many cougar / cub relationships are rock solid and last the test of time. And here’s my prediction: this trend of older women dating younger men is unlikely to go away soon.

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