Dating can be an exciting and thrilling journey, but it can also be frustrating and repetitive if we fall into the trap of dating the same types over and over again. The world of dating is full of possibilities, but most of us tend to stick to what’s familiar, limiting ourselves to the same dating patterns.

With the rise of online dating, finding people who interest you has become easier and more convenient. Online dating platforms allow you to search for potential dates by filling in web forms, either through quick or advanced searches. Quick searches are simple and only require a few criteria like location and age, while advanced searches let you specify more specific criteria such as hair color, eye color, education, body type, etc. However, it’s important to keep in mind that the more criteria you use for your search, the fewer results you’ll get. The search results are unforgiving and will often return exactly what you ask for.

Some dating platforms allow you to use keywords as part of your search criteria. This means that you can search for people whose profiles contain words that match your interests. For instance, you can search for people who enjoy tennis or skiing. This gives you the ability to be as specific as you like.

But, don’t limit yourself to what you think is “your type.” Your past relationship experiences and patterns might not have worked out, so it’s time to think outside the box. We often think we have a specific “type,” but it could be the same person we’ve been chasing unsuccessfully our whole lives. And even if your “type” was a successful relationship in the past, you can’t repeat it with someone new. Dating outside your box opens up the possibility of finding someone who just might be your true “type.”

One of the challenges of online dating is the “numbers trap.” The online culture of dating often focuses on the numbers, such as weight, height, age, and income. But these numbers can be misleading and often do not accurately represent someone’s appearance or attractiveness. In-person, someone may carry their height, weight, or age in a very attractive manner, but when you only see the numbers online, you might dismiss them as too old, too heavy, too short, or too tall. It’s important to remember that you have the right to want what you want, but try to look past the numbers and be more open.

If you’re not finding people who fit what you’re looking for, try expanding your horizons. Online dating gives you the opportunity to meet a lot of people, so be open and don’t restrict yourself. You don’t have to make any long-term commitment when meeting people, so leave yourself open to the possibilities. The person you fall for might surprise you, so get out of your dating box and allow the incredible opportunity of online dating to work for you.

Dating Dave says get out there and try new approaches and date with an open mind for the best results!