A considerable number of men think that they have everything resolved when it comes to dating ladies. However that sort of assumption is the thing that can end you up in the no-date zone. Read on to find out where you stand!
If you’re attempting to understand women, you’ve got to be willing to try different things and take a chance – because every woman is different. And you need to understand yourself too – and what makes you tick. Spend time understanding and “fixing” yourself, rather than just simply trying to attract women. Women love confident men – and that confidence comes from knowing yourself fully – and knowing what you have to offer.
Start with the basics, those things that are no-brainers but are fundamental to attracting women. Take care of yourself, shower regularly, smell nice, look clean, and sound and feel that way. If you look clean, fresh, and caring, that’s a good thing!
First impressions in dating are hugely important. When you have a haircut, trim your eyebrows, nose hair and ear hair too. Wolfman Jack is not a popular look these days. Some ladies like long hair, and some favour short hair. It doesn’t matter either way – but keep your hair clean, solid, and brushed. And if you want a girl to hold your hand, ensure that your nails and hands are clean too. Basic hygiene is a great attractant!
A lot of men find it difficult to know what to wear when dating. I can tell you that girls get excited when the man they are with wears stylish clothes. Style never goes out of fashion. A girl wants her man to look good too! Make sure that any clothes you wear when dating are clean, wrinkle free, and that the colours work well together. Over time, as you get to know your girlfriend / date more and more, you might even decide to wear close that compliment her naturally worn shades. If you don’t know what clothes and colours suit you, go shopping and ask for sales assistant help. Mirrors are great assets – you’ll generally know if you look good or not in something. Even better, find a random girl and ask her what SHE thinks!
With a clean and professional exterior, you’ll probably begin to feel pretty good about yourself on the inside. As you get more self esteem, you’ll find that more ladies are likely to start noticing you. Because you are confident, you’ll be an attractive man to have on their arm – because girls love strong and confident men. Women love men who lead, who take charge, who speak with their actions rather than words. But make sure you don’t push things too far and become arrogant. Arrogance is NOT an attractive quality.
When on any date, be yourself. Don’t try to be someone that you aren’t. Be authentic and credible. Talk about those things you understand – women do like meaningful conversations. But be manly and say you don’t know about something when you really don’t know. It’s ok not to know everything. Importantly, be honest.
Your girl will have her own opinions and thoughts on topics you discuss. If there are wide gaps in what you believe or feel about certain things (e.g. religion, politics, trust) then it might be you’re not well suited for each other – but hopefully you’ll be able to find areas of common ground that make you feel more “together”. Don’t change the way you feel about something simply to satisfy your girlfriend. Be true to yourself, and to her.
Treating yourself and your dating partner in the right way will put you en route to really enjoying the dating scene.
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