Whilst I write this Dating Dave blog mainly about finding meaningful and longer term relationships, it’s a fact of life that many people online are just looking for free, fast, easy sex. Yes, some of the biggest search queries these days are for keyword strings like adult dating, adult friend finding, sex buddy finder, sex, adult sex personals, free adult sex personals, free sex dating, and free sex personals. Actually, that’s probably been the case for some time.

So, who’s typing these strings in to Google or Bing, and what are they really looking for? It seems that most men who look for these terms just want a “good time” (wham, bam, thank you ma’am), and most women who look for these terms want a gateway to a relationship that may become semi-permanent in the future. These views seem poles apart, but sometimes they come together well (excuse the unintentional pun).

To make the most of any of the “easy sex” relationships you enter into, it’s important that you are very honest with the person you interact with. Just for clarity, this honesty is important whether the relationship is straight or homosexual. Be 100% honest about your intent. Are you looking only for fun short term, or are you open to the idea of a longer relationship? Are you intending to get to know your partner well, or is this a one-night stand of pure physical indulgence? Whether you are intending to have bareback sex, fellatio or cunnilingus, doggie style sex or any other sexual derivative, you must be honest about your feelings and where they may go or not go with that other consenting adult.

A large number of people online looking for love are seeking a long term relationship or lifelong companion, and take the dating process seriously. They write their profiles with honest intentions, and put information on their profile that can be verified. To take someone looking for genuine love, promise them that, but then take sexual advantage on that premise is not fair, ethical, or remotely nice… so don’t lead the other person on by saying you want a long term relationship, having sex, and then running away. If their profile says that they ONLY want sex however, and no emotional commitment, then fill your boots!

Honesty up front is an important value of dating that will help you to avoid problems later on.

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