Some relationships end before time – even if they were meant to be forever. Some people get back to normal life faster after a break up than others. Some people hold emotions for their lost flames for a longer time, and some even want to reignite the relationship once again. If you find yourself in a similar situation and are dedicated to getting your ex back, take comfort. Research has shown that around 90% of break ups can be reversed – if proper planning is used, and the timing is right.

You must be serious if you are willing to invest in getting love back. You should do initial research and preparation before starting to act on steps to get your ex back. You should reflect on your past relationship with this person, and find and understand the reasons the relationship fell apart. To get your ex back, and make a future together, you’re going to need to deal with those issues – and make them better going forward. Do you remember the little things your ex partner likes? These are some of the things you should concentrate on including in your relationship, once re-established.

Approach your ex once again and help them reignite their long hidden emotions for you. Show your ex that you are really serious on winning back their love and are ready to do anything for them. Be kind, truthful and loving to your ex. You can even start giving gifts to your ex to remind them of your “great relationship” of the past. This might help them to rejuvenate their feelings for you, and begin to forgive and forget your past transgressions or shortcomings.

If something had ended in a bad way in the past and was your fault, make a decent apology in front of your ex. They will surely start taking you seriously. Over time, if everything goes well, your ex may start reconsidering their original decision to split with you. If there are still some emotions inside them, and you fan these flames with your love, there is a chance that they may want to come back to you (although there are never guarantees). It can take some time for people to deal with the past and process all of their emotions, and this is a necessary thing to do before they jump into any relationships. So be patient, keep your fingers crossed, and do all you can to show yourself in a positive light to your ex partner. You may be lucky enough to get your ex partner back. If not, don’t despair. Just accept things and move on to find a new love match.