If you are planning to get back with your ex-boyfriend, it becomes significant to know which things or actions should be strictly avoided with him. In this article, some quick and useful tips are given for your reference.

•Refrain by irritating him too much by your calls, messages, and emails. Give him some time to feel relaxed after the break up.

•Let him enjoy his space for a few days after the break up. He needs to breathe in some fresh air and become emotionally rejuvenated before thinking about rekindling a lost love. Let him take his time. Don’t be in a hurry.

•Some people decide to make their ex jealous by going out with their friends etc. Trust me, its not worth it, and it will only show your immaturity. Avoid doing such stupid things, or you will never win back the love of your ex-boyfriend.

•Do not let him guess in anyway that you are moving on forever, because once he thinks like that, he will move forward in life too. Don’t run behind him, but also don’t completely neglect him. Let him know that he is important for you. It will keep things going between you and him while you work on winning his love back.

•Once you are ready to make everything happen in your plan, writing a letter to convey your feelings is a good idea. Write a quality letter to your ex asking him to get back into your life. Avoid using over-emotional words and crazy lines. Concentrate on talking about future plans together and other actions associated with your ex. In your letter, ask about what he thinks or feels. If he doesn’t reply, then there’s a good chance he’s not interested in reconciling – which you will need to accept. If however he does reply, make sure that you listen to his feelings before moving onto any next steps. Love takes time.

Reuniting with an old flame is an act of maturity. Things may not happen on their own and may take some time. Keep yourself busy, act maturely, and respect your emotions and your ex’s emotions if you truly do care about about him. With time, your dreams may come to reality – and you may win his love back.