If you need to spice up an existing relationship, sex toys and accessories may be worth investigating. Whilst many relationships do perfectly well without these helpful devices, some couples have found new excitement in their relationships through sex toy and accessory play. Buying sex toys is easy these days with both sex shops and online internet stores selling these products, but for some people, the buying process is still new and a little taboo, so I’ll try to help remove your fear.
Firstly, note that sex devices and toys come in various formats. There are all sorts of sex toys and stimulants now available – with everything from massage oils and role playing uniforms, through to vibrators, whips, chains, and virtual women / men bits on offer. This is useful to know so that you don’t look stunned when first walking into a sex shop. Luckily the internet also gives you the opportunity to search through huge adult sex toy catalogues and familiarise yourself with the ranges from the privacy of your own home. Also note that sex toy usage is becoming much more commonplace than in the past – some of your friends and relatives may well be using them! It’s important to realise this, because it will help to reinforce that you are not alone purchasing these, and therefore it might make your decision to buy sex toys and accessories easier.
Most large cities or towns will have a range of sex toy and accessory shops to choose from. Some people prefer that personal touch where they can physically see and handle toys before purchase. If you want to be a little more anonymous when buying, the internet has a great range of sex shops online – and the pricing is often much better than buying from actual brick-and-mortar adult shops. A Google search for “vibrator” will often give you a good list of sex shops and stockists close to you. If you decide to buy online from an internet based adult shop, choose one that has good prices, looks reputable, and carries a wide range of sex toys and accessories for sale. Check that any posted items come in plain brown wrapping – and aren’t plastered with a big “We sell awesome sex toys” sticker or similar.
If you are buying sex toys and accessories on the side – e.g. for use in your relationships, but not with your actual and regular partner – be aware of how things can be billed to credit card or bank statements. If you deal with the bank manager on a regular basis and don’t want him passing judgment on you based upon what you’re buying online, you might also prefer to pay cash at a physical adult store for items.
Sex toys and accessories have their place, but are best used in relationships where both partners wish to engage with the devices / items together (unless you are purchasing items for “self play”). On that basis, shopping together for these items may be an enjoyable and informative experience for both members of the loving couple. Who knows, it may even get you in the mood for some spontaneous afternoon delight- which is never a bad thing.
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