There is no set number of dates that determines when two people are considered to be a couple. It depends on the individuals involved and their personal views and feelings about the relationship. Some couples may consider themselves a couple after one or two dates, while others may not consider themselves a couple until several months or more of dating.

If you’re looking for a longer-term commitment (rather than a one-night stand, casual encounter, or friends with benefits situation), then you should look for these signs in your relationship that may indicate the potential for a good long-term partnership.

Good communication: This is key in any relationship. If both partners are able to openly and honestly communicate their feelings and needs, it can set a strong foundation for a long-term partnership.

Shared values and goals: When partners have similar values and goals, it can help to create a strong bond and a sense of shared purpose.

Trust: Trust is a crucial component of any healthy relationship. If both partners trust each other and have a strong sense of security in the relationship, it can help to create a strong foundation for the future.

Support and encouragement: If both partners are supportive and encouraging of each other’s goals and aspirations, it can help to build a strong and positive relationship.

Understanding and compromise: Relationships require understanding and compromise. If both partners are able to listen to each other, understand each other’s perspectives, and work together to find solutions to problems, it can help to build a strong and lasting partnership.

Ultimately, the decision of when two people are considered to be a couple is up to them and their level of commitment and mutual understanding. No relationship is perfect, and all relationships will experience ups and downs. Happy dating everyone!