Creating sexual tension is a critical aspect of interacting with women. It’s the charge of the interaction, a subtle yet powerful energy that can greatly enhance your chances of success. In the world of seduction, there are various techniques that are said to create sexual tension, such as cocky bantering, flirting, using explicit language to convey sexual interest, and complex language patterns. However, I believe that the purest form of sexual tension is one that is based on real sexual desire and is a natural way of amplifying the woman’s own sexual tension.
Sexual tension is the presence of a controlled arousal state, without overt sexual interest. To create this tension, I focus my sexual desire on the woman but don’t make any direct sexual advances. This maintains intrigue and ambiguity, which keeps her focused on me and directs her mind toward sexual thoughts. This state transfer can then be heightened through leadership and compliance techniques.
Having a controlled arousal state is essential for creating sexual tension. Women are naturally attracted to men who are sexually aroused, and there is a phenomenon known as “state transfer” where a person’s mood can be contagious. By maintaining a calm and comfortable state, you can better control your arousal levels and increase your chances of transferring your state to the woman. This can be achieved through socializing, meditation, a healthy diet, exercise, and raising your testosterone levels through weightlifting, zinc supplementation, and protein consumption.
The tension component is an extension of the second level of the attraction hierarchy: intrigue. Intrigue can be achieved by not over-validating the woman or holding back information, keeping her attention fixed on you. In terms of sexual tension, this means entering a sexual state but not verbalizing your desire. Verbalizing your sexual interest can be off-putting for some women and may create a mental block for getting isolated with you. The mystery is more intriguing when the treasure chest is closed and hasn’t been opened yet.
Creating sexual tension is a subtle art that requires control over your arousal state and maintaining intrigue and ambiguity. By following these tips and techniques, you can greatly enhance your chances of success in your interactions with women. And better success equals better fun and better outcomes!