Here at Dating Dave, I’m all about equality and equal equity and responsibilities in a relationship. I think that very healthy personally, and that it is something which most people would want – especially girls. But I’m speaking from my own ethnic and cultural values, reflective of how I have grown up. With billions of people in the world there will be many different opinions on this topic. My research into this has provided the following observations (which I stress are general and high level):

The role of women in a relationship can vary greatly across different cultures. Some cultures may place a strong emphasis on traditional gender roles, where the man is the primary breadwinner and the woman is responsible for domestic duties and child-rearing. In other cultures, there may be more gender equality, and both partners may share domestic and financial responsibilities.

In some cultures, the women are expected to be submissive to their male partners and may not have equal decision-making power in the relationship. On the other hand, in some cultures, women may have more autonomy and agency in their relationships and may be viewed as equal partners.

In some cultures, arranged marriages are common, and the woman’s role in the relationship may be more limited, as the marriage is often seen as a union between families rather than individuals. In contrast, some cultures may place a greater emphasis on romantic love and personal choice in selecting a partner. As Dating Dave, I truly believe that romantic love should be the centre of any relationship. A relationship without love is surely destined to failure – or as I often say: “if there’s no spark, the future’s dark”.

In some cultures, women may be expected to prioritize the needs of the family over their own needs and desires, while in other cultures, the women may be encouraged to prioritize their own personal growth and development. I personally think that personal growth and development is important for ALL women.

Culture is not monolithic, and within a culture there can be variations and diversity of opinions and beliefs. The role of women in relationships is constantly evolving and changing. Hopefully this ongoing change is for the better – promoting and encouraging better freedom, love and opportunities for all.