Getting a first date with someone is a big deal. You’re probably thinking “Cool, my online dating profile worked well, and now I can relax!”. Sorry, it’s not that easy. You’ve got to ensure that your first date is one that you and your partner will remember.

First Date Tip #1: Get to know each other. Don’t go to the movies for a first date, because whilst it’s enjoyable, you won’t get to find out much about each other. You’ll spend hours together, but not communicating. Go to a cafe or somewhere public instead, and allow lots of time to feel comfortable in each other’s presence and get to chat. You know my profile – now get to know ME.

First Date Tip #2: Any doubts? Get on the phone. Seriously, a phone date can be a great idea if you’ve not met before. It’s tempting to just rush in and meet your new partner, but talking with them over the phone first may give you a chance to understand a little more about them and what they’re into before you meet. This can make the first physical date less stressful and easier, and you can design a perfect day for each other in advance with this early knowledge.

First Date Tip #3: Make the date memorable. Do something different or unique – like rock climbing, mini golf, or something similar. Even if things don’t go well, your date will remember it and you! If it goes well they will be impressed by your uniqueness… and wonder what you’ll do for the second date!

First Date Tip #4: As I’ve written in some of my other articles, be yourself, be relaxed, be easy going, and be fun to be with. Be confident but not arrogant. Be funny but not stupid. Show that side of you that other people will warm to and grow to love. Present yourself in the best possible light.

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