Quizzing your partner about their intentions for your relationship can be a valuable way to understand where they see the relationship going, what their needs and desires are, and what levels of commitment they are able to offer. Before quizzing your partner, it’s important to be clear about your own intentions for the relationship. This will help you understand what you are looking for and what you need in a partner. When quizzing your partner, it’s important to start with an open and honest conversation. Make sure that they are comfortable and willing to talk about these topics, and let them know that you value their perspective and input.

To get the most out of your conversation, ask specific questions that will help you understand your partner’s perspective. Some questions to consider might include: What do you see as the future of our relationship? What are your needs and desires in a relationship? What level of commitment are you able to offer at this time? What are your long-term goals for the relationship?

It’s important to actively listen to your partner’s answers and take the time to understand their perspective. Avoid interrupting them or dismissing their thoughts and feelings, and try to have an open mind. If you and your partner have different opinions or needs, it’s important to discuss these differences openly and honestly. Work together to find a solution that works for both of you. Based on your conversation, make a plan for the future of your relationship. Discuss what steps you can take to ensure that both your needs and desires are met, and agree on a timeline for future discussions.

Quizzing your partner can help you make informed decisions about the future of your relationship and ensure that you are both on the same page. The earlier this quizzing is held in your relationship, the better. It’s important to build the right foundations for your relationship, with true clarity of your future direction together (and how you will achieve it).